But there are people who feel this way!  They’re everywhere.  They’re just like, ‘Well, that’s not my responsibility.’  I’m like; it’s your fucking dick!  What do you mean it’s not your responsibility, who’s is it?  Is your mom going to follow you around?  What the hell?  Grow up!  …If used properly, condoms work.  And have sex with other responsible adults. And there is no problem here…to talk about websites, there are websites for people, for like, people with herpes…to attract other people with herpes and there’s websites for people that have HIV.  I myself am not gay but I know the gay community has a lot of HIV friendly, or something like that, because it’s their reality.  If you’re a responsible person and you have a venereal disease you let your partners know and believe it or not most people are responsible.  It’s not this savage underground, women nearly getting raped every night and savage men getting ready to beat up lonely unsuspecting victims, it’s not like that.  It’s just a group of adults having sex. And that’s it.  There’s nothing seedy here…all of these things portrayed on TV are just not happening.  Women have one night stands and they go home just fine, men have one night stands and they can still be good fathers.  All of these other things that sort of surround the idea of having a lot of sex are just non-existent.  I know plenty of women that have a lot of one night stands that are fine people but society would not think that, you know, society would burn them at the stake tomorrow and it’s ridiculous.  It is ridiculous.  Another thing that I’ll say is society has this idea that women hate sex and men like it and that men are constantly convincing women to have sex against their better judgment, this is not true. 

Cause women are stupid. 

Right, yeah, it’s misogynistic is what it is. They don’t think that women own their sexuality; they think that men coax sexuality out of women.  I don’t know if this was ever true as I wasn’t alive in the 1900’s but this has never been my experience.  Every woman that I have ever had sex with has owned her sexuality, it has been hers.  She has participated as an equal partner; she can say no if she wants, she can say yes if she wants.  I have never had to coax sexuality out of anybody; these women own their own sexuality. 

There’s a site that we looked up that has porn from the early silent movie era and it's porn.  And women are in the porn, and there are different handmade gadgets from by gone days that are sexual things, I mean, it’s been around forever. 

Oh yeah. 

It’s kind of nature to want to have sex. 

Exactly! 

I think women probably want to have sex. 

Women do…sometimes with me! 

Quite frequently apparently… 

Yeah!  But you know, again, it's just this weird idea behind sexuality you know, that it’s a gift, that women are gifting you sex instead of women enjoy it, or want it and/or have it.  I mean, certainly some women don’t want to have sex and they’re never going to go to a club and try to get laid.  Not everybody falls on a spectrum; some people like to get laid more often than others, some people, even if they could in fact have sex with a different person every day would choose to say no.  My best example of that is Howard Stern.  You know, Howard Stern could have sex with a different person every hour, no problem, and his wife cheated on him.  Howard Stern interviews porn stars all the time and he’s like the most perverted guy anybody could name, he’s the original shock jock; the guy was married for 25 years and had three kids and never so much stepped out once and then his wife, the saint in all of this, cheated on him…How bassackwards is that?  And then three years later he gets married again because, you know, dude doesn’t want to have sex with a bunch of strangers.